Gender
August 14, 2025
August 14, 2025
for people who have already read my About me, you know that i'm Unlabeled, and a brief reason why.
gender has been a very complicated concept for me to associate with, there's a lot of everything. masculinity, femininity, fluidity, neither, a lot to keep up with! but not a lot i can relate to. i was assigned male at birth but throughout my whole life i just never felt masculine enough, people always pointed out certain factors of my behavior that just weren't very "masculine" and it always stuck with me.
ever since i realized i could perfectly stick to something else i was very glad, but how would i know what to stick with? i've given transfemininity a shot but i also realized i just didn't feel "feminine" enough. i feel like with transfemininity i had to stick with a certain standard, because i always observed most transfem folks to behave and look in a certain way that i felt was way out of my league. though i can't deny, being referred to with she/her pronouns feels very flattering.
then there's the neuter genders, i considered nonbinary but i realized i would also have to change my look to appear androgynous because it's neither masculine or feminine. listen, i basically didn't want to completely change the way i dress because i felt like once i did it i was gonna be completely obliterated by doing so.
a lot of time after, i found out that i could be Unlabeled. i could dress how i want, like what i like, do what i do, and just be me. something i could perfectly not tell anyone in real life, and something i felt my online presence could get around. i don't have to elaborate much on it, and you might as well understand why.
gender sucks and i ascend any and all concepts of it.
thanks for reading!